The whole idea of a free online sex meet is actually not new.
In fact, if you look at ancient history — ancient Europe, ancient India, whatever — sex meets were quite common.
In ancient Babylon, for example, during the planting season in springtime, people would go to the temple of the fertility goddess and have sex with random strangers.
That’s how awesome things were back in those old days.
Of course, the fact that people at that time had a very short life span might also explain why they were sexually promiscuous.
Sex meets then were pretty awesome.
Now, thanks to the Internet, this kind of anonymous hookup has been brought to the modern world.
There are instant parties organized through social media where random strangers could meet at a public location, pair up, and then proceed for an anonymous hookup.
Thanks to the Internet, things have turned out well for this type of hookup.
But this raises the question: Can you really meet great people from such hookups and arrangements?
I know it’s one thing to end up with people who can give you what you’re looking for; it’s another thing to meet interesting people that are actually worth knowing.
The good news is, Yes.
Here are some tips to keep in mind.
– Don’t Let Your Assumptions Ruin Your Experience
If you assume that something will be true, you could trigger a self-fulfilling prophecy and your expectations will come true.
If you assume that these sex meets would only get you fat, ugly, and psychotic women, that’s exactly the kind of women that will show up.
You shape your reality with your assumptions, so don’t let your assumptions ruin your experience.
Focus instead on the sense of adventure and possibility that you would have walking into such a situation.
– Great, Well-Adjusted People Love Physical Intimacy, Too
The truth is that anonymous physical intimacy has a lot of fans.
These are doctors and lawyers, highly educated people, people that a very nice to other people, volunteers who have a lot of compassion.
They just accept and are completely honest with that part of themselves.
They don’t have any hypocrisy.
They don’t believe in these bullshit conventions that people normally subscribe to regarding this part of their personality.
They just allow themselves to be completely honest with themselves.
Make no mistake about it, there are lots of great, well-adjusted people that are into this kind of thing and they’re not crazy.
They were not abused during their chldhood, they don’t do drugs; anonymous hookup is just their hobby.
So if you’re wondering whether you can meet really nice people at such gatherings, the answer is a resounding Yes!
But of course, to meet nice people, you have to be nice yourself first.
